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The Illusion of Communication:
The Conversations Couples Think They Have

Featured in International Business Times

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At FOCCUS®, we believe strong marriages start with better conversations.

One of the most common challenges couples face is not the absence of communication—but the illusion of it. Many couples believe they have truly discussed important topics when, in reality, they have only exchanged surface-level words.

In a recent article published by International Business Times, I explore why meaningful conversations matter so deeply in marriage preparation and enrichment—and why strong marriages begin with intentional dialogue.