Guiding Couples in Love and Faith
for 40 Years.
Our Mission: Helping Couples Grow in Love and Faith
God, who exists as a communion of persons, created us to live and love in relationship. As a ministry of the Catholic Archdiocese of Omaha, FOCCUS® Marriage Ministries helps couples strengthen their relationship with each other and with God by fostering open communication, understanding, and prayerful reflection.
We are dedicated to nurturing holy, happy, and healthy marriages by offering preparation and enrichment resources that help couples grow in love and faith — in every stage of life and vocation.
Communication: Helping couples speak and listen with love.
Commitment: Building relationships that reflect God’s covenant.
Growth: Guiding couples to deepen faith and unity throughout life.
Our Vision: A World Transformed by Strong, Faith-Filled Marriages
We envision a world where every couple — from newly engaged to lifelong partners — experiences marriage as a sacred and joyful vocation.
By empowering couples, parishes, and ministries, FOCCUS® helps communities flourish through the witness of strong marriages that reflect Christ’s enduring love for His Church.
Our Story: From a Simple Idea to a Global Ministry
FOCCUS® began in 1985 when three marriage and family therapists saw a need for a better way to prepare couples for marriage — one that encouraged honest, faith-filled conversations instead of one-time lectures.
They created the FOCCUS Pre-Marriage Inventory, a research-based tool designed to “Facilitate Open Couple Communication, Understanding, and Study.” Its purpose was simple: help couples talk about what matters most before they say “I do.”
From that humble beginning, FOCCUS® grew into an international ministry used by over one million couples in more than 30 countries, supported by 8,000+ parishes and organizations.
In 1988, FOCCUS® introduced the REFOCCUS® Marriage Enrichment Inventory, extending its mission to couples at every stage of life. Today, FOCCUS® continues to evolve — developing new resources for military families, first responders, mid-life marriages, and convalidations within the Catholic Church.
What Makes FOCCUS® Unique:
Faith. Science. Relationship.
FOCCUS® is more than an assessment — it’s a ministry. Our inventories are backed by decades of research, validated by The Gallup Organization and independent sociologists, yet rooted in the timeless truth of God’s design for marriage.
- Faith Rooted
Grounded in Catholic theology and pastoral care. - Research Validated
Psychometrically tested and refined through 40 years of data. - Universally Accessible
Available in multiple languages and formats for use across faith traditions.
Our Commitment: Serving Couples, Strengthening Parishes, and Supporting Ministries Worldwide
FOCCUS® is committed to walking with the Church and with all who serve couples in love. Whether preparing engaged couples for marriage, enriching existing relationships, or training facilitators to minister with excellence, our mission remains constant: to help every couple discover God’s presence in their love.
Meet Our Team
Our mission is carried forward by clergy, deacons, and lay professionals who believe deeply in the vocation of marriage and the power of open, grace-filled communication.
FOCCUS® Staff:
Archdiocesan Contributors:
Sheila J. Simpson
Executive Director
Fr. Michael Grewe
Ministry Director
Kathy Jones
Operations & Finance Assistant
Luisa Claus
Customer Service Representative
Bilingual (Spanish)
Camille Wether
Customer Service Representative
Archbishop George J. Lucas
Fr. Scott Hastings, Vicar General and Judicial Vicar
Deacon Tim McNeil, Chancellor
Elizabeth Sondag, Vice Chancellor
Fr. Scott Schilmoeller, Vocations Director
Fr. Matthew Gutowski
Fr. Michael Grewe
Fr. Taylor Leffler
Fr. Damian Zuerlein
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