Who this is for:
Engaged couples • Married couples • Couples seeking deeper spiritual connection

Introduction

Faith can shape how couples communicate, make decisions, handle challenges, and understand the purpose of marriage itself.

How to Use This Conversation Starter

• Set aside quiet, uninterrupted time
• Speak honestly and respectfully
• Listen without judgment
• Allow room for differences and questions

Conversation Questions

• What role has faith or spirituality played in your life?
• How would you like faith to influence your relationship?
• What spiritual practices help you feel closer to God?
• How can we support each other during difficult spiritual seasons?
• What is one way we could grow spiritually together?

If the Conversation Feels Challenging

• Avoid trying to “win” spiritual discussions
• Focus on listening with compassion
• Remember spiritual growth takes time

Closing Reflection

Faith grows through small, consistent moments of prayer, trust, and love.

Optional Closing Prayer

Lord, guide our relationship with wisdom, humility, and faith. Amen.

FOCCUS® Marriage Ministries
Supporting holy, happy, and healthy marriages