Marriage preparation is much more than completing a questionnaire—it’s about creating meaningful conversations that help couples build a strong foundation for lifelong marriage.
In this featured video, Cardinal Timothy Dolan reflects on the importance of intentional marriage preparation and explains why FOCCUS® has been such a valuable resource for pastors and engaged couples. Drawing on his years of parish ministry, he shares how FOCCUS helps couples move beyond simply answering questions to having conversations that strengthen understanding, communication, and commitment.
One observation from Cardinal Dolan captures the importance of marriage preparation perfectly:
“It’s easier to get a marriage license than it is to get a driver’s license.”
His message reminds us that preparing for marriage deserves thoughtful attention, and that the conversations couples have before their wedding day can benefit them for years to come.
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Official Transcripts
To make this resource available to an even wider audience, FOCCUS® Marriage Ministries provides official transcripts in both English and Spanish.
About FOCCUS®
FOCCUS® (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding & Study) is a research-based marriage preparation inventory used by thousands of dioceses, parishes, churches, and marriage ministry programs throughout the world.
Rather than serving as a test, FOCCUS helps engaged couples engage in meaningful conversations about life’s most important topics before they marry. Learn more about FOCCUS® Marriage Ministries at www.foccusinc.com.