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Kidokezo kwa Mwezeshaji<\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

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Jinsi ya Kutambulisha FOCCUS\u00ae Bila Kuwafanya Wenzi Wawe na Wasiwasi<\/p>\n

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Wenzi wengi hufika katika kikao chao cha kwanza cha FOCCUS wakiwa na wasiwasi wa kimya:
\u201cJe, tunahukumiwa?\u201d<\/strong> au \u201cItakuwaje ikiwa hatulingani?\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n

Utangulizi wa utulivu na kujiamini mwanzoni mwa mkutano wenu wa kwanza unaweza kubadilisha hali kabisa na kuwasaidia wenzi kutulia katika mazungumzo yenye maana.<\/p>\n

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Kidokezo kwa Mwezeshaji<\/h1>\n

Anza kwa kueleza wazi kwamba FOCCUS ni nyenzo ya mazungumzo, si mtihani.
Wenzi hushiriki vizuri zaidi wanapoelewa:<\/p>\n

    \n
  • hakuna majibu \u201csahihi\u201d<\/li>\n
  • tofauti ni za kawaida<\/li>\n
  • lengo ni kuelewana, si kukubaliana<\/li>\n
  • jukumu la mwezeshaji ni kusaidia, si kutathmini<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Wenzi wanapohisi salama, hufungua mioyo. Na wanapofungua mioyo, mchakato huwa malezi badala ya wasiwasi.<\/p>\n

    Jaribu kusema\u2026<\/h2>\n

    Hizi ni kauli chache zinazoleta hali ya amani na ya kichungaji (tumia inayofanana zaidi na namna yako ya kuzungumza):<\/p>\n

      \n
    • \u201cFOCCUS si mtihani\u2014hakuna kufaulu au kufeli. Ni nyenzo tu inayowasaidia kuzungumzia mada muhimu kabla ya ndoa.\u201d<\/li>\n
    • \u201cHamhitaji kuwa na majibu yanayofanana kabisa. Tofauti ni za kawaida. Kilicho muhimu ni kujifunza kuzungumzia tofauti hizo vizuri.\u201d<\/li>\n
    • \u201cJukumu langu si kuwahukumu. Jukumu langu ni kusaidia mazungumzo mazuri na kuwasaidia kuelewana vizuri zaidi.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Mpangilio rahisi wa \u201cdakika tano za kwanza\u201d<\/h2>\n

      Ikiwa unataka mtiririko wa kuaminika wa kuanza, huu unafanya kazi vizuri:<\/p>\n

        \n
      1. Karibisho la ukarimu (shukrani na maneno ya kutia moyo)<\/li>\n
      2. Eleza FOCCUS (nyenzo, si mtihani)<\/li>\n
      3. Onyesha kwamba tofauti ni za kawaida (bila aibu, bila hofu)<\/li>\n
      4. Weka matarajio (kusikiliza, heshima, kutokatizana)<\/li>\n
      5. Alika sala (hiari, kulingana na desturi za parokia)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Angalia\u2026<\/h2>\n

        Dalili chache kwamba wenzi wana wasiwasi au wanajilinda:<\/p>\n

          \n
        • ishara za mwili zenye mvutano, kutazamana machoni kwa kiasi kidogo<\/li>\n
        • kutania ili kuepuka mada nzito<\/li>\n
        • kujilinda kwa kujitetea (\u201cKweli, sikumaanisha hivyo\u2026\u201d)<\/li>\n
        • mtu mmoja kuwajibia wote wawili<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          Ukiziona hizi, tulia na uwahakikishie tena.
          Usalama kidogo mwanzoni huokoa matatizo mengi baadaye.<\/p>\n

            \n
          • Wakati kidokezo hiki kinafaa zaidi: Kina nguvu zaidi:<\/li>\n
          • katika kikao cha kwanza<\/li>\n
          • kabla ya kupitia matokeo<\/li>\n
          • wakati wowote mada za migogoro zinapoleta mvutano<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

            Maneno ya kutia moyo ya kuhitimisha<\/h2>\n

            Asante kwa unachofanya. Wawezeshaji huweka hali ya kihisia ya kikao. Unapoongoza kwa uwazi wenye utulivu na maneno ya kutia moyo, wenzi hujifunza: \u201cTunaweza kufanya mazungumzo magumu pamoja.\u201d<\/p>\n

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