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Wenzi wengi hawapati matatizo kwa kukosa upendo. Hupata matatizo kwa sababu wana matarajio ambayo hawajawahi kuyatamka<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Matarajio kuhusu:<\/p>\n Matarajio yasiyoelezwa mara nyingi hugeuka kuwa kukatishwa tamaa. Kukatishwa tamaa hugeuka kuwa chuki. Chuki hugeuka kuwa utengano. Lakini matarajio pia yanaweza kuwa mlango wa umoja<\/strong>\u2014wenzi wanapoyazungumzia kwa unyenyekevu.<\/p>\n Matarajio mengi hujifunzwa. Tunayapata kutoka kwa:<\/p>\n Baadhi ya matarajio yana afya. Baadhi si halisi. Mengi yanatofautiana tu kati ya watu wawili. Tofauti si tishio. Ni taarifa.<\/strong><\/p>\n Wenzi wenye mahusiano yenye afya hawahitaji matarajio yanayofanana kabisa. Wanahitaji njia ya pamoja ya kuzungumzia tofauti.<\/p>\n FOCCUS huwasaidia wenzi kufanya hivi kwa kuwapa lugha na mpangilio wa mada ambazo wangeweza kuziepuka. Wenzi wanapoweza kusema:<\/p>\n \u2026tayari wanajenga ndoa imara zaidi.<\/p>\n Jaribuni hili pamoja:<\/p>\n Haya ndiyo mazungumzo yanayozuia migogoro ya baadaye\u2014si kwa sababu yanatatua kila kitu mara moja, bali kwa sababu yanajenga kuelewana na kuaminiana.<\/p>\n Kwa shukrani,<\/p>\n Mkurugenzi Mtendaji, FOCCUS\u00ae Marriage Ministries<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Matarajio yasiyoelezwa mara nyingi hugeuka kuwa kukatishwa tamaa. Kukatishwa tamaa hugeuka kuwa chuki. Chuki hugeuka kuwa utengano. Lakini matarajio pia yanaweza kuwa mlango wa umoja\u2014wenzi wanapoyazungumzia kwa unyenyekevu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":10732,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","rank_math_title":"Kuzungumzia Matarajio Kabla ya Ndoa | FOCCUS\u00ae","rank_math_description":"Matarajio yasiyoelezwa yanaweza kuleta mvutano kimyakimya katika ndoa. Chunguza jinsi FOCCUS inavyowasaidia wachumba kuzungumzia matarajio kabla ya ndoa kwa uaminifu na unyenyekevu.","rank_math_focus_keyword":"matarajio kabla ya ndoa","footnotes":""},"categories":[252],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-neno-kutoka-kwa-mkurugenzi-wetu-mtendaji"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10731"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10731\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10733,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10731\/revisions\/10733"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10732"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n
Matarajio yanakotoka<\/h2>\n
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Lengo si kufanana\u2014ni kuelewana<\/h2>\n
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Zoezi rahisi kwa wachumba<\/h2>\n
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Sheila J. Simpson<\/h3>\n