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Tofauti Zinapokuwa Fursa za Kukua<\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

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Tofauti Zinapokuwa Fursa za Kukua<\/h1>\n

Wenzi wote wana tofauti. Baadhi ni ndogo na za kuvutia. Nyingine huonekana nzito na zenye uzito mkubwa.<\/p>\n

Tofauti katika:<\/p>\n

    \n
  • mtindo wa mawasiliano<\/li>\n
  • mazingira ya familia<\/li>\n
  • fedha<\/li>\n
  • utekelezaji wa imani<\/li>\n
  • kufanya maamuzi<\/li>\n
  • mazoea ya kushughulikia migogoro<\/li>\n
  • mahitaji ya kihisia<\/li>\n
  • matarajio kuhusu ukaribu na muda<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Wenzi wengi huogopa tofauti kwa sababu hudhani tofauti hutabiri kushindwa. Lakini tofauti hazitabiri kushindwa<\/strong>. Kinachotabiri uimara ni jinsi wenzi wanavyoitikia tofauti.<\/p>\n

    Tofauti huonyesha mahali ambapo upendo unahitaji kukomaa<\/h2>\n

    Wenzi wanaopendana wanaweza kufurahia kufanana. Wenzi wanaoishi wito wao hujifunza kupendana licha ya tofauti. Tofauti hualika ukuaji:<\/p>\n

      \n
    • kukua katika subira<\/li>\n
    • kukua katika unyenyekevu<\/li>\n
    • kukua katika mawasiliano<\/li>\n
    • kukua katika huruma<\/li>\n
    • kukua katika kujidhabihu<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Kwa maana hii, ndoa haiondoi tofauti\u2014huigeuza kuwa kazi ya pamoja ya upendo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

      Kusudi la FOCCUS si kufuta tofauti<\/h2>\n

      FOCCUS huwasaidia wenzi kutambua tofauti mapema kwa njia salama, ili tofauti iwe mazungumzo badala ya mgogoro mkubwa. Wenzi wanapozungumzia tofauti kwa msaada wa mwezeshaji, mara nyingi jambo zuri hutokea:<\/p>\n

        \n
      • hutambua kwamba hawana \u201ckosa,\u201d bali wanatofautiana tu<\/li>\n
      • hujifunza kusikiliza bila kushambulia<\/li>\n
      • hugundua wanaweza kujenga mpango pamoja<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        Huo ni ukuaji.<\/p>\n

        Mtazamo mpya rahisi<\/h2>\n

        Ikiwa ni wachumba na mnagundua tofauti, jaribuni mtazamo huu mpya:<\/p>\n

        Badala ya: \u201cJe, hii ni ishara ya hatari?\u201d<\/em> Ulizeni: \u201cHili litahitaji nini kutoka kwetu ikiwa tunataka kupendana vizuri?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

        Swali hilo huongoza kwenye malezi badala ya hofu.<\/p>\n

        Neno kwa wanaowahudumia wenzi<\/h2>\n

        Wawezeshaji na viongozi wa dini: mnawasaidia wenzi kuona tofauti kwa tumaini. Mnawasaidia kutoka katika wasiwasi kuelekea kuelewana, na kutoka katika kujitetea kuelekea ushirikiano. Hiyo si kazi ndogo. Hiyo ni kazi ya kiroho.<\/strong><\/p>\n

        Kwa shukrani,<\/p>\n

        Sheila J. Simpson<\/h3>\n

        Mkurugenzi Mtendaji, FOCCUS\u00ae Marriage Ministries<\/p>\n

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