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Att prata om f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar f\u00f6re \u00e4ktenskapet<\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

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Att prata om f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar f\u00f6re \u00e4ktenskapet<\/h1>\n

M\u00e5nga par har det inte sv\u00e5rt f\u00f6r att de saknar k\u00e4rlek. De har det sv\u00e5rt f\u00f6r att de b\u00e4r p\u00e5 f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar som de aldrig har uttalat h\u00f6gt<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

F\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar om:<\/p>\n

    \n
  • hur konflikter b\u00f6r hanteras<\/li>\n
  • vad \u201dgod kommunikation\u201d inneb\u00e4r<\/li>\n
  • hur pengar b\u00f6r hanteras<\/li>\n
  • tid med sl\u00e4kten<\/li>\n
  • roller i hush\u00e5llet<\/li>\n
  • intimitet<\/li>\n
  • b\u00f6n och tro<\/li>\n
  • vad det inneb\u00e4r att vara \u201den god make eller maka\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Outtalade f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar blir ofta besvikelser. Besvikelser blir bitterhet. Bitterhet blir avst\u00e5nd. Men f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar kan ocks\u00e5 bli en v\u00e4g till samh\u00f6righet<\/strong> \u2013 n\u00e4r paret pratar om dem med \u00f6dmjukhet.<\/p>\n

    Varifr\u00e5n f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar kommer<\/h2>\n

    De flesta f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar \u00e4r inl\u00e4rda. Vi tar till oss dem fr\u00e5n:<\/p>\n

      \n
    • familjen vi v\u00e4xte upp i<\/li>\n
    • kulturen<\/li>\n
    • medier<\/li>\n
    • tidigare relationer<\/li>\n
    • v\u00e5ra personliga r\u00e4dslor och f\u00f6rhoppningar<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Vissa f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar \u00e4r sunda. Vissa \u00e4r orealistiska. M\u00e5nga skiljer sig helt enkelt mellan tv\u00e5 personer. Olikheter \u00e4r inget hot. De \u00e4r information.<\/strong><\/p>\n

      M\u00e5let \u00e4r inte likhet \u2013 det \u00e4r f\u00f6rst\u00e5else<\/h2>\n

      Ett par i en sund relation beh\u00f6ver inte ha identiska f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar. De beh\u00f6ver ett gemensamt s\u00e4tt att prata om olikheter.<\/p>\n

      FOCCUS hj\u00e4lper par med detta genom att ge dem ord och struktur f\u00f6r \u00e4mnen som de annars kanske skulle undvika. N\u00e4r ett par kan s\u00e4ga:<\/p>\n

        \n
      • \u201dJag f\u00f6rstod inte att du f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntade dig det.\u201d<\/li>\n
      • \u201dJag har aldrig t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 det s\u00e5.\u201d<\/li>\n
      • \u201dKan vi l\u00e4ra oss ett b\u00e4ttre s\u00e4tt tillsammans?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        \u2026h\u00e5ller de redan p\u00e5 att bygga ett starkare \u00e4ktenskap.<\/p>\n

        En enkel \u00f6vning f\u00f6r f\u00f6rlovade par<\/h2>\n

        Pr\u00f6va det h\u00e4r tillsammans:<\/p>\n

          \n
        1. Var och en n\u00e4mner en f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntning<\/strong> som hen har p\u00e5 \u00e4ktenskapet.<\/li>\n
        2. Den andra svarar med nyfikenhet, inte f\u00f6rsvar<\/strong>.<\/li>\n
        3. Fr\u00e5ga sedan: \u201dVar tror du att den f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningen kommer ifr\u00e5n?\u201d<\/li>\n
        4. Avsluta med: \u201dHur skulle vi kunna st\u00f6tta varandra i det h\u00e4r?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Det h\u00e4r \u00e4r den sorts samtal som f\u00f6rebygger framtida konflikter \u2013 inte f\u00f6r att det l\u00f6ser allt direkt, utan f\u00f6r att det bygger f\u00f6rst\u00e5else och tillit.<\/p>\n

          Med tacksamhet,<\/p>\n

          Sheila J. Simpson<\/h3>\n

          Verksamhetschef, FOCCUS\u00ae Marriage Ministries<\/p>\n

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          Outtalade f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar blir ofta besvikelser. Besvikelser blir bitterhet. Bitterhet blir avst\u00e5nd. Men f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar kan ocks\u00e5 bli en v\u00e4g till samh\u00f6righet \u2013 n\u00e4r paret pratar om dem med \u00f6dmjukhet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":9459,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","rank_math_title":"Att prata om f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar f\u00f6re \u00e4ktenskapet | FOCCUS\u00ae","rank_math_description":"Outtalade f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar kan belasta \u00e4ktenskapet i det tysta. Utforska hur FOCCUS hj\u00e4lper f\u00f6rlovade par att prata om f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar med \u00e4rlighet och \u00f6dmjukhet.","rank_math_focus_keyword":"f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar f\u00f6re \u00e4ktenskapet","footnotes":""},"categories":[114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9458","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ett-ord-fran-var-verksamhetschef"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9458","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9458"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9458\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9589,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9458\/revisions\/9589"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9459"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}