{"id":11050,"date":"2025-12-16T16:52:38","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T22:52:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/rozhovor-o-ocakavaniach-pred-manzelstvom\/"},"modified":"2026-11-02T07:57:41","modified_gmt":"2026-11-02T13:57:41","slug":"rozhovor-o-ocakavaniach-pred-manzelstvom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/sk\/rozhovor-o-ocakavaniach-pred-manzelstvom\/","title":{"rendered":"Rozhovor o o\u010dak\u00e1vaniach pred man\u017eelstvom"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"et_pb_section_0 et_pb_section et_section_regular et_block_section et_pb_section_parallax\"><span class=\"et-pb-parallax-wrapper\"><span class=\"et-pb-parallax-background et-pb-parallax-background-module--divi-section-0\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/iStock-454122775-scaled.jpg)\"><\/span><span class=\"et_parallax_gradient\" style=\"background-image:linear-gradient(180deg, rgba(15,54,117,0.93) 0%,rgba(4,31,81,0.71) 100%)\"><\/span><\/span><div class=\"et_pb_row_0 et_pb_row et_block_row\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_0 et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_0 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module et_pb_text_align_center\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><h1><em><span style=\"font-family: Lora; font-weight: normal;\">Rozhovor o o\u010dak\u00e1vaniach pred man\u017eelstvom<\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_section_1 et_pb_section et_section_regular et_block_section\"><div class=\"et_pb_row_1 et_pb_row et_block_row main-textbox\"><div class=\"et_pb_column_1 et_pb_column et_pb_column_2_5 et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_image_0 et_pb_image et_pb_module et_block_module preset--module--divi-image--e30b6337-9d21-42c3-960d-c15e8bfcdb94\"><span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Sheila_092024_Low10-scaled.jpg\" width=\"1707\" height=\"2560\" class=\"wp-image-11972\" alt=\"Ruky nevesty a \u017een\u00edcha pri v\u00fdmene obr\u00fa\u010dok po\u010das svadobn\u00e9ho obradu v kostole. Posv\u00e4tn\u00e1 sviatos\u0165 man\u017eelstva. Svadobn\u00fd p\u00e1r a k\u0148az pri odovzd\u00e1van\u00ed obr\u00fa\u010dok.\" title=\"Sheila_092024_Low10\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"et_pb_column_2 et_pb_column et_pb_column_3_5 et-last-child et_block_column et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_1 et_pb_text et_pb_bg_layout_light et_pb_module et_block_module\"><div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><h1>Rozhovor o o\u010dak\u00e1vaniach pred man\u017eelstvom<\/h1>\n<p>Mnoh\u00e9 p\u00e1ry nemaj\u00fa \u0165a\u017ekosti pre nedostatok l\u00e1sky. Maj\u00fa ich preto, \u017ee v sebe nes\u00fa o\u010dak\u00e1vania, ktor\u00e9 <strong>nikdy nevyslovili nahlas<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>O\u010dak\u00e1vania t\u00fdkaj\u00face sa t\u00e9m:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>ako by sa mali rie\u0161i\u0165 konflikty<\/li>\n<li>ako vyzer\u00e1 \u201edobr\u00e1 komunik\u00e1cia\u201c<\/li>\n<li>ako by sa malo hospod\u00e1ri\u0165 s peniazmi<\/li>\n<li>\u010das so \u0161ir\u0161ou rodinou<\/li>\n<li>\u00falohy v dom\u00e1cnosti<\/li>\n<li>intimita<\/li>\n<li>modlitba a viera<\/li>\n<li>\u010do znamen\u00e1 by\u0165 \u201edobr\u00fdm man\u017eelom \u010di man\u017eelkou\u201c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nevysloven\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vania sa \u010dasto menia na sklamanie. Sklamanie na zatrpknutos\u0165 a zatrpknutos\u0165 na odcudzenie. O\u010dak\u00e1vania sa v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017eu sta\u0165 aj <strong>cestou k jednote<\/strong> \u2013 ke\u010f o nich p\u00e1r hovor\u00ed s pokorou.<\/p>\n<h2>Odkia\u013e poch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa o\u010dak\u00e1vania<\/h2>\n<p>V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed si osvojujeme. Preber\u00e1me ich z r\u00f4znych zdrojov:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>na\u0161a p\u00f4vodn\u00e1 rodina<\/li>\n<li>kult\u00fara<\/li>\n<li>m\u00e9di\u00e1<\/li>\n<li>predch\u00e1dzaj\u00face vz\u0165ahy<\/li>\n<li>na\u0161e osobn\u00e9 obavy a n\u00e1deje<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Niektor\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vania s\u00fa zdrav\u00e9. Niektor\u00e9 s\u00fa nere\u00e1lne. Mnoh\u00e9 sa jednoducho u dvoch \u013eud\u00ed l\u00ed\u0161ia. <strong>Rozdiely nie s\u00fa hrozbou. S\u00fa inform\u00e1ciou.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Cie\u013eom nie je rovnakos\u0165, ale porozumenie<\/h2>\n<p>Zdrav\u00fd p\u00e1r nepotrebuje rovnak\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vania. Potrebuje spolo\u010dn\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako hovori\u0165 o rozdieloch.<\/p>\n<p>FOCCUS v tom p\u00e1rom pom\u00e1ha t\u00fdm, \u017ee poskytuje slov\u00e1 a \u0161trukt\u00faru pre t\u00e9my, ktor\u00fdm by sa inak mo\u017eno vyhli. Ke\u010f p\u00e1r dok\u00e1\u017ee poveda\u0165:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201eNetu\u0161il som, \u017ee to o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0161.\u201c<\/li>\n<li>\u201eNikdy som sa na to takto nepozeral.\u201c<\/li>\n<li>\u201eM\u00f4\u017eeme sa spolo\u010dne nau\u010di\u0165 lep\u0161\u00ed sp\u00f4sob?\u201c<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u2026u\u017e buduje pevnej\u0161ie man\u017eelstvo.<\/p>\n<h2>Jednoduch\u00e9 cvi\u010denie pre sn\u00fabencov<\/h2>\n<p>Sk\u00faste spolo\u010dne toto:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Ka\u017ed\u00fd pomenuje jedno o\u010dak\u00e1vanie<\/strong>, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1 od man\u017eelstva.<\/li>\n<li>Druh\u00fd \u010dlovek reaguje <strong>so zvedavos\u0165ou, nie obranne<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>Potom sa sp\u00fdtajte: \u201eOdkia\u013e pod\u013ea teba toto o\u010dak\u00e1vanie poch\u00e1dza?\u201c<\/li>\n<li>Na z\u00e1ver sa sp\u00fdtajte: \u201eAko by sme sa v tom mohli navz\u00e1jom podpori\u0165?\u201c<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Tak\u00fdto rozhovor predch\u00e1dza bud\u00facim konfliktom. Nie preto, \u017ee okam\u017eite v\u0161etko vyrie\u0161i, ale preto, \u017ee buduje porozumenie a d\u00f4veru.<\/p>\n<p>S v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165ou,<\/p>\n<h3>Sheila J. Simpson<\/h3>\n<p>V\u00fdkonn\u00e1 riadite\u013eka, FOCCUS\u00ae Marriage Ministries<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nevysloven\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vania sa \u010dasto menia na sklamanie. Sklamanie na zatrpknutos\u0165 a zatrpknutos\u0165 na odcudzenie. O\u010dak\u00e1vania sa v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017eu sta\u0165 aj cestou k jednote, ke\u010f o nich p\u00e1r hovor\u00ed s pokorou.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":11051,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rank_math_title":"Rozhovor o o\u010dak\u00e1vaniach pred man\u017eelstvom | FOCCUS\u00ae","rank_math_description":"Nevysloven\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vania m\u00f4\u017eu potichu za\u0165a\u017eova\u0165 man\u017eelstvo. 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