{"id":10419,"date":"2026-05-08T17:14:31","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T22:14:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/illusjonen-om-kommunikasjon-samtalene-par-tror-de-har\/"},"modified":"2026-09-15T15:50:10","modified_gmt":"2026-09-15T20:50:10","slug":"illusjonen-om-kommunikasjon-samtalene-par-tror-de-har","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/no\/illusjonen-om-kommunikasjon-samtalene-par-tror-de-har\/","title":{"rendered":"Illusjonen om kommunikasjon: Samtalene par tror de har"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&raquo;1&#8243; admin_label=&raquo;Header&raquo; _builder_version=&raquo;4.27.6&#8243; _module_preset=&raquo;default&raquo; use_background_color_gradient=&raquo;on&raquo; background_color_gradient_stops=&raquo;rgba(15,54,117,0.93) 0%|rgba(4,31,81,0.71) 100%&raquo; background_color_gradient_overlays_image=&raquo;on&raquo; background_image=&raquo;https:\/\/foccusinc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/iStock-1402204501-e1778260406437.jpg&raquo; 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