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Et quand ils s\u2019ouvrent, la d\u00e9marche devient une formation plut\u00f4t qu\u2019une source d\u2019anxi\u00e9t\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2>Essayez de dire\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>Voici quelques phrases qui installent un climat paisible et pastoral. Choisissez celle qui vous ressemble le plus :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00ab FOCCUS n\u2019est pas un test : il n\u2019y a ni r\u00e9ussite ni \u00e9chec. C\u2019est simplement un outil pour vous aider \u00e0 parler de sujets importants avant le mariage. \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab Vous n\u2019avez pas besoin de r\u00e9ponses identiques. Les diff\u00e9rences sont normales. L\u2019essentiel est d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 bien en parler. \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab Mon r\u00f4le n\u2019est pas de vous juger. Il est de soutenir un dialogue constructif et de vous aider \u00e0 mieux vous comprendre. \u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Un d\u00e9roulement simple pour les cinq premi\u00e8res minutes<\/h2>\n<p>Pour bien commencer, voici un d\u00e9roulement fiable :<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Accueillir chaleureusement, avec gratitude et encouragement<\/li>\n<li>Pr\u00e9senter FOCCUS comme un outil, pas un test<\/li>\n<li>Normaliser les diff\u00e9rences, sans honte ni panique<\/li>\n<li>Poser le cadre : \u00e9coute, respect, pas d\u2019interruptions<\/li>\n<li>Inviter \u00e0 la pri\u00e8re, si cela convient aux pratiques paroissiales<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>\u00c0 surveiller\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>Quelques signes de nervosit\u00e9 ou de r\u00e9serve chez un couple :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>un langage corporel tendu, peu de contact visuel<\/li>\n<li>des plaisanteries pour \u00e9viter les sujets s\u00e9rieux<\/li>\n<li>des r\u00e9actions d\u00e9fensives : \u00ab Ce n\u2019est pas ce que je voulais dire\u2026 \u00bb<\/li>\n<li>une personne qui r\u00e9pond pour les deux<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Si vous les remarquez, faites une pause et rassurez de nouveau le couple.<br \/>Un peu de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 au d\u00e9but \u00e9vite bien des difficult\u00e9s par la suite.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Quand ce conseil est le plus utile :<\/li>\n<li>lors de la premi\u00e8re rencontre<\/li>\n<li>avant d\u2019examiner les r\u00e9sultats<\/li>\n<li>chaque fois que les sujets de conflit cr\u00e9ent de la tension<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Un encouragement pour terminer<\/h2>\n<p>Merci pour ce que vous faites. Les animateurs donnent le ton \u00e9motionnel de la rencontre. 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